Thursday, April 25, 2013

Do you believe everything?

Today Jeremiah and I got into a heated discussion over the news and the bomber. No I never display our arguments however this is in need of discussion.

Do you believe in everything you watch on the news?

It is like that commercial

My mom use go harp on me for not watching the news and not knowing what’s going on in the world. There is a reason why I don't watch the news and that is because I don’t believe everything that they talk about, I mean come on with all this technology they still can't get the weather right! This morning's news was about the Boston bomber and how he was interrogated for 16 hours. Now on my Facebook news feed it has been about the bomber and what their intentions were. I am a believer in conspiracy, so I ask this question....why were they running "mock bombing trials" the same day? There are photos of Navy Seals with back backs as well as people on the rooftops. These are some things that make no sense to me. Why is it that there was no video of them dropping the book bags but then I hear that there is a video yet I can't find an actual video for it? Do I believe that they did it? Honestly I don’t know, my reason for it is simple.... if they did it then why didn't they leave the state right after? They didn't lock down the area right away.
There are too many unanswered questions that will never be answered. The Government has secrets that We the people will never know about.
I for one am not happy with the way the Government is conducting business. I am beginning to believe that they are not for The People. 
This whole gun reform in CT is causing serious problems. One issue that I have is the registering the clips and if you don't it is a Class D fine but yet if I don't register my dog I'm not a felon and dogs can hurt people and other animals but yet a piece of plastic can classify you as a criminal? Am I the only one who sees a problem with this?

Well I just hope that our country can turn itself around and right the wrongs.

~Peace Out~

Thursday, April 18, 2013

Learning to accept things I can not change

Sorry I haven't had a post in a while. I haven't been in the right frame to blog, blogging requires clever and witty things to say and I hadn't had anything clever or witty to write.

I have always had the hardest time accepting things I can not change or things that I have no control over. When things are out of my control I tend to stress about it but thankfully I have Jeremiah who grounds me and helps to remind me that it will work itself out the way Fate has intended to.

I have always been a planner and a doer. Don't get me wrong I tend to procrastinate....a lot. When I am facing a decision I always plan for the worst and hope for the best but recently I didn't plan for the worst case and I was crushed. Jeremiah was there for me once again and made me realize that I can't change people's decisions and I can't make them change themselves either. So I have moved passed that situation with a smile.

Wedding planning has been slow. Not really much left to do except make the invitations, meet with the cook, and make the decorations and that is all that is left. I am so excited to be getting married. I never wanted to get married, I seen what marriage does to people and I wanted no part in that but now it is different with Jeremiah. I want that next step with him, regardless that we have been together over 6 years, this is a big commitment for the both of us and it will make us united.

Marriage is something more than just a piece of paper, more than just a commitment, it is tying two people together and that should make it more than just a word. People lose sight of that when getting married. Marriage isn't something that should be just thrown away when you feel like your done working at it. Marriage takes work from 2 people, and both parties need to know what battles to pick and when to understand how the other partner feels. Women like to bitch and when I need to bitch I tell Jeremiah I just need him to listen to what I am saying and understand how I feel. That is how we have been avoiding arguments. Marriage to me should be something special.

There are people who believe that marriage is between a man and a woman and that is it, however all statistics based on marriage is solely based on a man and a woman but yet 50% of those marriages end in divorce. It isn't gays or lesbians that ruing marriage it is the men and the women. Women stop impressing their men because they have married them and believe that they no longer have to do that. Wrong. Men feel stuck because they work, come home to being nagged, and start the same thing all over again. The men arent' allowed to continue their shenanigans anymore because the woman believes they need to grow up and act like a husband but yet we fall in love with them because of their shenanigans and what not. Just because you get married doesn't give the right to dictate what the husband does. When Jeremiah and I get married I will not tell him that he can't play video games anymore, can't hang out with his friends, and that he needs permission to do things. That's not a relationship that's control, and that is what contributes to divorce. I love him for who he is and I wouldn't want him to change that. I know that we will not end in divorce (of coarse I have already told him that we will never divorce no matter what lol) because we are meant for each other. He is my rock and he is what I need to keep grounded and there isn't a day that goes by that I don't show him how much I appreciate him for who he is and what he has done for us as a family.

Well there is my thoughts on marriage.

~Peace Out~

Wednesday, April 10, 2013

I haven't been in the mood to blog

Blogging is one of those things that you need to be in the right frame of mind for so that you can come up with some clever things to say. Well I haven’t been in the "clever" mood for the past week or so. Any who I am getting excited to be graduating next month and being able to celebrate with all my friends and family. I have accomplished so much but yet still have more to go.
Between graduation and wedding stuff I seem to still have little time for anything and now that I have increased my workout times I have even less time. I actually thought. I figured that increasing my workout times will also help me to lose the weight needed in 4 months. 
I can't wait until next week when I am on vacation from work. I have each day booked up to meet with the few friend that I haven't seen in a while which I am excited for.
Well off to relax and get ready for another day in paradise lol